Sunday, March 21, 2010

vacationing at the airport

I have been thinking a lot, lately, about church. Not just recently, but for a few years, now. Not my church, specifically, but more so the concept of church. What it is intended to be. What it should look like. How it should function. How much of what a church does is based on Christ's intent when He established it, and how much of it is based on what man's traditions have made of it?

It's a big subject to ponder. Bigger than this blog post.

But, here's the thing. My family doesn't currently have a church. We made the very difficult decision to leave the church we have attended since moving here, and we are "on tour", searching for a place to call home. My "church tour" has led me out of the box a bit. I have always attended a certain kind of church, that does things a certain way. While I'm not compromising any of the doctrines on which I stand, re-thinking church has caused me to explore churches that I would likely have been closed-minded to just a few years ago. They are mostly similar, but different than what I am used to. A few years ago, they would have had to be just plain similar.

Getting to my point, I visited another such church for the first time this morning. It was a few blocks from my home. Zachary wasn't feeling well, so Jen stayed home and I went with just Dylan and Lily. We slipped in the back a few minutes before the worship service began. I'm not sure the church itself is quite what we're looking for, but the pastor's message stuck with me.

He spoke about what the church should be. My ears perked up. It wasn't necessarily anything extremely profound, but a great reminder and in line with my recent church musings. He asked the question, "Is our church designed to fit our needs (those who worship within the walls), or to bring those outside the walls to know Christ?" He shared two examples to illustrate his point.

First, he compared the church to a Haitian mission project that he had been a part of. The project was to bring water to a particular Haitian village. The project raised funds to drill a well to bring fresh drinking water to the people of the village. The well was drilled. The people came to the well. The mission then put a wall and locked gates, a compound of sorts, around the well to protect it. The people for which the well was drilled were then isolated from the water. So, the mission put a pipe to the outside of the wall and they would turn on the faucet at certain times of the day to allow the villagers to get the water they desperately needed. The pastor made the parallel to the modern church. We build our nice, comfortable buildings and we worship in them, almost as though it were an elite club designed for its members. We then turn on the faucet every so often to distribute the Living Water to those outside our "compound".

Secondly, he likened church to an airport. We say we go to the airport, but nobody really goes to an airport... we go through it. The airport is not our destination. He asked how many had ever gone to the airport for vacation. Not through it to get to vacation, but actually vacationed at the airport. Ridiculous, right? The point he was making is that "church" is not a destination. The people of God are the church. Instead of going "to church" often, perhaps we should pass "through church" often on our way to becoming and living as the church.

I'm a visual kind of person. I liked his illustrations and I was challenged by them. So how about you? Are you vacationing at the airport, or passing through the airport? (Or, has it been a while since you've even visited an airport?)

the path less traveled

Yesterday was my friend John's birthday. He's been wanting me to go hiking for a while, but every time he calls, it seems it's never a good time for me. I wasn't really doing anything this afternoon, though, and he said I had to go, because it was his birthday. So, he came over and I took him to a park near my house that he had never experienced before. He loved it. It was a real "John" kind of place. I've been there numerous times, but he managed to find things I've never found. But that's just John... often taking the path less traveled. Happy Birthday, John! Thanks for a fun day and for being a good friend.



This tree was growing on the side of the rocks


John's eldest, Nathaniel and my eldest, Dylan


I love this picture






Saturday, March 20, 2010

where in the blue blazes?

Today was a beautiful Spring Saturday in Ohio. Dylan, Zachary and I went hiking on an eight mile looping portion of the Buckeye Trail that runs through a nearby state park. The Buckeye Trail loops our entire state and is marked by blue blazes. No, we didn't do the entire eight mile loop, but probably did somewhere between three and four miles total (in and out the same portion).

Buckeye blue blazes

I like this portion of trail because it is well marked, but not as developed and well traveled as some of the other trails. There are several natural small stream crossings devoid of man-made foot bridges. There might be a series of strategically placed rocks, a fallen tree, or nothing at all. Sometimes you have to hike up or down stream to find a crossing, then return to the trail on the other side. The boys liked the challenge of finding their own crossings, and they are big enough and the streams small enough that I could pretty much let them go and the worst that could happen was that they might get wet, muddy, or both.
Zachary carefully picking his way across stones

Dylan finding his own route across the stones

Zachary balancing across a log, with about a 2 foot deep pool below him

And, my favorite, the running leap!

Dylan, also midair, performing his running leap crossing
We came out of the woods fairly mud free, and with five out of six feet dry. I won't tell you who had the soggy boot... but, no, it wasn't me!

Friday, March 19, 2010

Bus Driver, MOVE THAT BUS!

When we moved to this house, there was Dylan and Zachary, and I promised them a nice room. They moved into a temporary room. Then, we added Lily, and I promised them a nice room. Then, we added Benny, and I promised them a nice room. They moved into another temporary room. Tonight, after living in 3 out of 4 bedrooms in this house, they are finally tucked in and sound asleep in "their" room.

I finished up the last few details this week and today I moved their furniture in while they were at school. After waiting this long, I decided to have a little fun with "the reveal" (although my wife thought it was a little cheesy). We all enjoy watching Ty Pennington and the cast of ABC's "Extreme Makeover, Home Edition", so I had the door locked when they came home, and I took the whole family upstairs to the hallway. The boys were amused to find Benny's Leapfrog bus "parked" in front of the closed doorway. They chuckled, as we all said in unison,
"Bus Driver, MOVE THAT BUS"!

We stood in front of the closed bedroom door and, in the spirit of Ty Pennington, I gave them a little speech about my special project room and how much they deserved what was behind this door. I unlocked the door. They liked it! Here's your tour.

BEFORE

BEFORE

BEFORE

With pink walls and pink carpet, it was known as "the pink room", but it was the second largest bedroom and sizable enough to share.

Draftsman's view BEFORE

Here's an AFTER shot before furniture.

If you're interested in the technical, the drawings above illustrate that nearly every interior wall on the second floor has been/will be reframed and moved, and the brick chimney that ran through the center of the house has been removed. Although the home originally had four bedrooms, one was a walk-thru, rendering it fairly useless as an actual bedroom. The change of layout will allow the hallway to access all four rooms, privately, eliminating the walk-thru. Closets were reconfigured to be more useful and room sizes were adjusted, as well.

You may notice that in all my "finished" pictures (here and the bathroom) the electric is unfinished. My electrician did the rough-in, but still has to do the finish work. He will do it in a few stages, and will be in soon, after I get a little more of the second floor finished. We have a few "hot" outlets on the second floor to get by, for now, but will soon have real lighting, switches, and outlets.

AFTER with furniture (look quickly... it likely won't look like this for long!)


Closet and entry doors

Closet with Nerf hoop... my "room-warming" gift to Dylan and Zachary (which they have been warned they will lose if they get too rowdy)!
Draftsman's view AFTER

Sunday, March 7, 2010

the cure

What do you get when you mix an Ohio Sunday afternoon in early March with 50 degrees, sunshine, a big woods, four adults, seven kids, and you sprinkle in a generous amount of mud and leftover snow? Sounds like the cure for cabin fever to me!